
I spent a good few years running on that hamster wheel, working stupidly long days, striving to attain my impossible, perfectionistic standards, a boundaryless people pleasing workaholic. Cycle after cycle of burnout, frequent absenteeism, presenteeism, worsening mental health, increasing chaos, decreasing resilience and premature perimenopause at 39, I'd reached saturation point and wanted out of the relentless pinball machine of life. I have since learned that I have AuDHD (Autism + ADHD). Whilst I took the long and scenic route round, I do wish I knew much earlier in life what I know now. Today I live authentically, unashamedly and unapologetically, I care so much about this that I help others to step off the wheel, out of the pinball machine and do the same. Not working 60 hour weeks, not people pleasing and not prioritising others before my needs and those of my family is incredibly freeing.
The way I like to work is for you and I to get to know one another a little before any decisions are made, just enough to check for a connection and some chemistry (I don't mean the romantic kind), and I do this for two reasons, let me explain...
Firstly there are few other investments as important as supporting and developing self. Like other well considered investments, I wouldn't expect you to spend good money on a tailor made pair of shoes without seeing and trying some on for size first. It's the same deal with finding the right coach and mentor, so it's only right that you and I get acquainted before committing to anything.
Secondly coaching isn't done to you, it's done with you, a partnership of two equals, an exchange of value, and a willingness on your part to step out into the unknown with me. For this to be possible a foundation of trust and safety are vitally important, having an initial call will orientate you to the coaching environment and pave the way to those foundations being laid.
Book a complimentary 30 minute online video call with me, and we'll have a relaxed chat about where you'd like coaching to take you, your trajectory, your way.
By the way, you have my word there will be no hard sell or pressure, it makes me feel very awkward and really isn't my style!
SINGLE SESSION
1.5 hour 1:1 online session
Sometimes we have crystal clear clarity around what we want, what needs to change, where we want to go and which way is up. Often though, we don't have that level of self awareness, we feel clunky, in a perpetual funk wading uphill through treacle. In these moments it can be really helpful to figure this stuff out with someone neutral.
YOUR WIRING YOUR WAY
9 hours of 1:1 online sessions
Living with AuDHD/ASD/ADHD, ready to drop the mask, step away from smoke and mirrors, stop apologising for who you are and start living authentically out loud, your wiring, your way? I'll support you to own your unique brilliance, end imposter syndrome, cultivate self acceptance, rewrite your narrative, set guilt free boundaries, speak your truth and navigate change with courage.
Yes, I offer both in-person and virtual coaching sessions to accommodate the needs and preferences of my clients. For in-person sessions, I am based near Reading, Berkshire, England.
The frequency of coaching sessions depends on your goals, your preferred time line and our availability. Typically we will meet weekly or bi-weekly to enable you to get traction and momentum, however we can leave it longer between sessions if you have a longer term goal.