Hello I'm Pen

I spent a good few years running on that hamster wheel, working stupidly long days, striving to attain my impossible, perfectionistic standards, a boundaryless people pleasing workaholic. Cycle after cycle of burnout, frequent absenteeism, presenteeism, worsening mental health, increasing chaos, decreasing resilience and premature perimenopause at 39, I'd reached saturation point and wanted out of the relentless pinball machine of life. I have since learned that I have AuDHD (Autism + ADHD).  Whilst I took the long and scenic route round, I do wish I knew much earlier in life what I know now. Today I live authentically, unashamedly and unapologetically, I care so much about this that I help others to step off the wheel, out of the pinball machine and do the same. Not working 60 hour weeks, not people pleasing and not prioritising others before my needs and those of my family is incredibly freeing.

connection + chemistry

The way I like to work is for you and I to get to know one another a little before any decisions are made, just enough to check for a connection and some chemistry (I don't mean the romantic kind), and I do this for two reasons, let me explain...


Firstly there are few other investments as important as supporting and developing self. Like other well considered investments, I wouldn't expect you to spend good money on a  tailor made pair of shoes without seeing and trying some on for size first.  It's the same deal with finding the right coach and mentor, so it's only right that you and I get acquainted before committing to anything. 


Secondly coaching isn't done to you, it's done with you, a partnership of two equals, an exchange of value, and a willingness on your part to step out into the unknown with me. For this to be possible a foundation of trust and safety are vitally important, having an initial call will orientate you to the coaching environment and pave the way to those foundations being laid.

let's talk

Book a complimentary 30 minute online video call with me, and we'll have a relaxed chat about where you'd like coaching to take you, your trajectory, your way. 


By the way, you have my word there will be no hard sell or pressure, it makes me feel very awkward and really isn't my style!

Book a call

programmes + fees

EXPLORE

£80

SINGLE SESSION

1.5 hour 1:1 online session

Sometimes we have crystal clear clarity around what we want, what needs to change, where we want to go and which way is up. Often though, we don't have that level of self awareness, we feel clunky, in a perpetual funk wading uphill through treacle. In these moments it can be really helpful to figure this stuff out with someone neutral.

LIVE OUT LOUD

£675

YOUR WIRING YOUR WAY

9 hours of 1:1 online sessions 

Living with AuDHD/ASD/ADHD, ready to drop the mask, step away from smoke and mirrors, stop apologising for who you are and start living authentically out loud, your wiring, your way? I'll support you to own your unique brilliance, end imposter syndrome, cultivate self acceptance, rewrite your narrative, set guilt free boundaries, speak your truth and navigate change with courage.

Want to live out loud unapologetically, unashamedly, authentically you? Click here to have a chat...

Want to live out loud unapologetically, unashamedly, authentically you? Click here to have a chat...

Want to live out loud unapologetically, unashamedly, authentically you? Click here to have a chat...

Want to live out loud unapologetically, unashamedly, authentically you? Click here to have a chat...

Want to live out loud unapologetically, unashamedly, authentically you? Click here to have a chat...

Want to live out loud unapologetically, unashamedly, authentically you? Click here to have a chat...

How coaching can help

identity + self

self advocacy + care

self advocacy + care

  • Beat imposter syndrome
  • Reclaim a lost sense of you
  • Rediscover your purpose
  • Make sense of your identity
  • Unpack your diagnosis
  • Unmask with courage
  • Celebrate all that you are?
  • Align to an authentic life
  • Build evidence of your value

self advocacy + care

self advocacy + care

self advocacy + care

  • Stop people pleasing
  • Prioritise yourself guilt free
  • Maintain strong boundaries
  • Ask for what you need
  • Learn to foresee + prevent burnout 
  • Protect regular you time
  • Enjoy being present
  • Speak your truth confidently
  • Manage others expectations

relationships

self advocacy + care

thoughts + behaviours

  • Manage your social energy
  • Communicate curiously
  • Communicate with fluidity
  • Navigate tricky relationships
  • Manage relationship conflict
  • Second guess others less
  • Handle endings thoughtfully 
  • Read between the lines
  • Approach beginnings safely

thoughts + behaviours

thoughts + behaviours

thoughts + behaviours

  • Dial down perfectionism
  • See adversity as opportunity
  • Find comfort in ambiguity
  • Think with fluidity
  • Develop a positive mindset
  • Take control of worry
  • Manage overthinking
  • Quieten your negative script
  • Connect to your wise mind

Focus + productivity

thoughts + behaviours

Focus + productivity

  • Build helpful, healthy habits
  • Beat procrastination
  • Be motivated to start tasks
  • Get projects across the line
  • Create daily order + routine
  • Plan for a big event / change
  • Reduce task overwhelm
  • Build task switching agility
  • Manage + flex your capacity

emotion + progression

thoughts + behaviours

Focus + productivity

  • Change your limiting beliefs
  • Widen your comfort zone
  • Identify your emotions
  • Be more emotionally literate
  • Make courageous decisions
  • Have emotional freedom
  • Progress / career pivot
  • Traverse change fearlessly
  • Strengthen your resilience

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testimonials

    Frequently Asked Questions

    • 19 years experience coaching + mentoring (pre qualification) within large organisations in a managerial / leadership capacity.


    • ILM Level 7 & EMCC EIA Diploma for executive and senior level coaches and mentors (globally recognised masters level equivalent qualification with the ILM).


    • I work to the Global Code of Ethics (the Code, third version, 2021), which is the most comprehensive code of ethics for those working in the world of coaching, mentoring, and supervision.  


    • 50 years lived experience of AuDHD, (late diagnosed).


    Yes, I offer both in-person and virtual coaching sessions to accommodate the needs and preferences of my clients. For in-person sessions, I am based near Reading, Berkshire, England.


    • We will meet via Microsoft Teams / in person and ease into the session gently to orientate you to the space and the work we are about to do.


    • Every session is forward looking, person-centered (about you), action focused (your actions, the good work part) and unique to your experience and goals.  


    • There may be a semi structure to our sessions, or it may be quite fluid, it depends very much on what you'd like to gain and take away from that session.


    • If you haven't had coaching before, it won't be long before you'll  look forward to the space I create for you, and the level of listening I will afford you, something we rarely encounter in the day to day rush and transactional nature of our busy lives (if you are interested in knowing more about the levels of listening, search up Stephen Covey's theory of listening, fascinating stuff!).

     

    • I  will use a range of modalities, visualisations and questions to empower and enable you to access the beliefs, values, thoughts and behaviours which run like a script below the surface. 


    • I will echo back / hold up a mirror to what I have observed (with your permission). This is powerful and where many of the transformational moments happen, since we are often not aware of these scripts.


    • We will always end a session agreeing the actions you will take between the current and next session, and you will leave feeling resourced, present and ready to move on with the rest of your your day.


    The frequency of coaching sessions depends on your goals, your preferred time line and our availability.  Typically we will meet weekly or bi-weekly to enable you to get traction and momentum, however we can leave it longer between sessions if you have a longer term goal. 


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